Monday 10 February 2014

a morning thought

                  parenting and governance- an equivalence

parenting is very similar to the governance. it is like the central government, which is being elected for five years to rule the life of its citizens. only difference is that one cannot choose his or her parents. most of Indian children must have had experienced certain traditional values. which defines do'es and don't, as we  have constitutions. but constitution is amendable if parliament want,in the same way if parents thinks some rules can be broken for guests or favorite child,it's OK. but if someone outside of the parliament challenges the some alleged unconstitutional order. then they allege them of being unconstitutional instead debating or talking about it.
parents on one hand want their child to grow up and be decisive. but one often find their parent control over hairstyle, dressing, friend-circle and almost everything. later after marriage control over your wife, which leads to saas-bahu drama in the house. one can relate that with center- state slug fest on many issues, latest being jan-lokpal. power, which is an obsession, most of us enjoy either in politics or in family. this may be one of many reasons why we have still problems in accepting-:
*treating women as equal.
*debating section 377 on LGBT.

can u question the president of our country, or of your family? a straight no. i mean the same person was a union minister a few days ago. if one gets promoted, and reaches to highest post, does that mean, he is always correct? well that is a question open for debate. country is no private limited company, where "BOSS IS ALWAYS RIGHT". here everybody should be open for scrutiny including "RASTRAPATI".  all other PATI'S has to only listen all their life, how can one be exception. even in family one cannot question the oldest some time, even if he is wrong. often in your it becomes matter of "tumse jyyade jindgi dekhi hai inhone"(he has seen more life than you). well obviously, he is one reason of me being in this world, but does that make him always right?  #with all respect to the elders.

*be little patient while reading, just  a thought. which is open for debate or scrutiny. if anybody find any mistake .please comment.


































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